More on Tantric

I’ve had no comments from you folks, so I don’t know how you’re reacting to the material I’ve posted about Tantric Sex. I’m going to keep trying because I personally love the idea of it and the intimacy that can come as a result. I learned so much about the role of breathing and the fantastic voyage you can take with touching!

So! I’ll keep posting and hope that in time someone will comment. I’m heartened by the Likes. You guys are affirming. Would love it  if you could post comments. If you’re shy you can post without your name or make up a name. I don’t mind.

I have copies of my book. If you order two or more, I will pay the S&H. Books are on sale this month. Ebooks are available from Barnes and Noble or Amazon. So are the soft-cover books. Books are cheaper from me and I’ll autograph them for you.

Hope to hear from you.

Dr. Monica



The Audiobook is in process!

This is exciting. I am editing the final version. Perhaps you can help me. I want to include a message so that those who may have had unpleasant or traumatic sexual experiences will know that one or two of the interludes might be a trigger for painful memories. My intent is to get us talking about fun and interesting sexual experiences. None of the interludes are about sad things. Growth and development, trying new things, testing limits…yes. Your thoughts?

The Energy is Building

Folks, the stars are aligning and good things are happening. Met with a great engineer this evening and we’ve begun the journey to produce a really fine audio book.

I can’t say time was wasted because I’m a firm believer in things happen for a reason. When I told the engineer what it was I wanted to provide for you, the excitement was palpable. Yes! Back on track. It won’t be too long.

I’m energized and I’ve been given some great tips on how to proceed. You’re an amazing group and blessings on you for hanging in there with me.

Have great sex next time, sweet, sticky, wonderful sex. Say the words out loud. More coming…no pun intended…:)

Update on the production of the audiobook

Well Folks, Like everyone else, I live and learn. The group that did the audio book with me seem to have vanished. I have been waiting since before Christmas to receive the finished, ready to go product. We had some back and forth stuff that really muddied the water. They did not seem to understand that they could not add dialogue to my copyrighted work. We didn’t agree on some other issues. Suffice it to say that when I finally came to grips with their goals for my work, I knew it was time to end the relationship. They agreed to send me the master wave tapes with the recording so that I could make the changes I wanted. To date I have not received them, although I still have the text promising it would be mailed to me.

It’s been difficult to focus on erotica while dealing with such ugly reality. Time to move on.

So what can you expect old and new friends? I’m going to put one or two of the short interludes in the media section of this site early this week. Many of you continue to Like what you see, but it’s not impacting sales of my book. Time to change that.

Ebooks are available from Barnes and Noble and from Amazon. Paperback copies are available from

Comments/feedback are more helpful than you can know to a writer. Please let me hear from you.

Did you like the posts about Tantric? Want to read more?

I’d love to have conversations with readers, so this Spring, I will begin having podcasts so we can talk!!!


I’m Back! Thanks to those of you who kept visiting!

Hello Readers,
I’m here to tell you practicing Tantric helped me to recharge and to create some balance and peace in a stressful environment. Talk about practicing what you (I) preach!!!

Tantric focuses on self to enrich and enhance spirituality and sensuality…breathing, loving oneself, caring for one’s skin, and everything around you.

So! The next few posts will focus on Tantric Sex and how you get there. We”ll have lots of fun and hopefully, you’ll try it and like it…and share.

I’m back. Thanks for being there.

An Astronomer’s take on my book

“Again, her name is Monica and she writes erotica. Her inspiration is, well, another marvel of a woman, named Dr. Ruth Westheimer, out of New York City. There you have it – two sexual women, two races, one humanity, with similar intentions and spirit. Anyway, Monica, a college educator, with strong leanings towards psychosexual counselling, has published her first book this summer. It is titled, “Pure Pleasure”.

I’ve read it, and I’m biased, but it’s ‘hot’ for Arians, romantic for Librans, earthy for Taureans, gritty for Scorpios, mentally stimulating for Geminians, Kama Sutran for Sagittarians, nourishing for Cancerians, while being very, very proper for Capricornians – this woman is a lady. The book is chock full of Leo’s Sunshine, and pours the proverbial liberating water like an Aquarian. In the end, Dr. Monica (I feel she is life-qualified) has artfully, discerningly, and tastefully told stories that make you appreciate what you had and look forward to more. She unleashes imagination that will no-doubt bring a Piscean Peace to any long ordeal, to those trials of blending, and merging through sex.


An Open Letter to My Readers

Dear Friends/Likes,

I am writing because we are nearing a very special moment for anyone who communicates via this venue. You will have soon helped me achieve one thousand Likes for my website. I have enjoyed this journey to a point.

I am a communicator before I am many things and I have not found the connection with you that I have sought. My goal for the site and for my book Pure Pleasure Erotica A Collection of Erotic Interludes is to bring about conversations. I wonder sometimes if you folks are talking with each other, but not with me via the site.

I am also interested in selling the book so that I will have the capital to promote this book as well as the second book I am writing. An audio book should be available  for the Christmas holidays. Feedback is critical. I not only want to reach you through the site but through my book(s) as well.

Please let me hear from you. I am writing because I love it but also because I want to stimulate free-wheeling conversations about sex and sensuality…thoughts, words, and actions.

I think Nasty is good…Do you?