What I Love Most About the Philosophy of Tantric Sex

The Tantric philosophy teaches one about self-love. No judgments. Our bodies are temples to be cared for and respected. No judgments. The rituals one can create as preparations are made for engaging in Tantric Sex foster acceptance and love of one’s self. There is also respect and acceptance of one’s partner. Again, no judgments.

Tantric lovers learn to appreciate the entire body. No quick jam and out for them. The ritual involves a slowed down process that allows partners to enjoy every inch building to a heightened sense of awareness that paves the way for the deepened intimacy that follows.

The fragrances, the silky smooth fabrics, the soft lighting, and the all- over- the- body touching, kissing, nibbling,  sucking, and massaging all bring the partners to a deeper intimacy and preparation for the joining of their bodies, if and when that is what they want to do.

“Look into my eyes” takes on a whole new meaning.

More later.



What Women Want 2015 event

Hello, Folks! The event was fabulous this year. There were thousands of participants. Lots of women came by my booth. A good number bought books; that’s always nice. We had great conversations about the book, why I’m writing, and so forth. I must say I was surprised to hear how many women said they felt that “they were done”. Some said they “were tired” or  “too old for that anymore”. The other important comment was from those women who lamented having a partner…someone to share with on this great adventure called sex!  One of my messages was you have to love yourself before you can look to share with another. We had great fun with that and hopefully the samples we gave out will be fun too!

I really enjoyed the time with each and every woman who did me the honor of stopping by my booth. Thanks to Stan Johnson who did a beautiful job on my banner, Target Printing for producing it so quickly and well, and to my two wonderful helpers who went out of their way to engage, sell, and support. Special thanks to X Mart staff who generously donated items for the raffles, and of course to Cumulus Radio (Dot Ely and Beena Syed) for all of their efforts to promote this wonderful event. I can’t thank any of them enough.

We had a ball.