Tantric sex isn’t for the quickies or the bip bam thank you ma’am situations. When you have time and patience, it might be a good time to try something different. Pillows, soft silky fabrics, candles, scented oils…instrumental music (no lyrics to get in the way)…and patience. When was the last time you two sat close together facing one another and just looked at one another?
Think about the setting and the “things” mentioned above. Talk about that and the idea of time close together and just looking at one another…slowly drinking in every inch of your partner. Let me know how that goes.