The beauty of this philosophy is the focus on intimacy. The more you learn about your partner, the sensitive spots, the contours, the likes and dislikes,the hidden spots neither of you knew were responsive to touch, pressure, wetness, temperature change,and more, the better able you are to bring wonderful pleasure.
Tantric thinking and discipline foster a journey of discovery, not the pressure building and releasing of the sex act itself. The sensuality and intimacy in time heighten the potential for the sustained dance leading to an orgasmic release that can be indescribable with mere words.
To begin try sitting close facing one another but not touching. Think about and then verbalize to one another all that you see…even the little things.
Then gently rub noses. Nothing more till next time.